from my colleague (thanks buddy):
There are a few good articles on this subject in the book Queer Theory - edited by Iain Morland and Annabelle Willox (Palgrave 2005). See especially "Leather Daddy and the Femme" by Carol Queen (40-53), "Gender Fucking or Fucking Gender" by Stephen Whittle (115-129), and "Gender Fusion" by Del LaGrace Volcano and Indra Windh (130-141).

Judith Halberstam (USC) is perhaps the most successful scholar on the subject of genderfucking. Three of her most popular books on this subject include Posthuman Bodies (Indiana 1995), In a Queer Time and Place: Transgender Bodies, Subcultural Lives ( NYU 2005), Female Masculinity (Duke 1998), and The Drag King Book (Serpent's Tale 1999).

update: i also found this interesting website T-VOX, "designed as a support and community website for transsexual, intersex and genderqueer, people questioning their gender identity and anyone with any other gender identity issues." Here is their definitions page. It has a platform like wikipedia, so that anyone can contribute to the site.